One of the most valuable lessons I have learned in my life,

I learned that I should not generalize or stereotype people, and know that there is always 2 sides for the same coin, and often even multi-dimensions.

I saw how unjust it is to think that because you are labeled as a member of a certain group, religion, country, social status or race, you are automatically liable for prejudices and stereotypical views.

I have learned never to take the actions of one individual and pin it on his nation or religion.

Most of all, I learned to put myself in others shoes before judging them, listen to what people have to say before condemming them and not to ignore the credit someone has earned for few misplaced actions they did.

I learned to be tolerant , understanding, empathetic and compassionate.

But, on top of that I also learned not to expect the same understanding, tolerance, compassion and empathy from people around me,  for they may not practice the same broadness of mind.

Unfair but sadly true.

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